Loneliness is a universal human emotion, yet it is both complex and unique to both individual. In order to understand loneliness, it is important to take closer look at exactly what we mean by the term ''lonely'' as well as the various causes, health,consequences,symptoms, and potential treatment for loneliness.
According to the research by John Cacioppo, a university of chicago psychologist and one of the top loneliness experts, loneliness is strongly connected to genetics. Other contributing factor includes situation variables, death of someone significant, divorce physical isolation and sometimes caused by depression..
*How to Cure this loneliness..
¥.Recognise and know the cause of loneliness,
~Focus on developing quality relationship with people who share similar attitudes, interest and values with you.
~ You have to force yourself to have interest in others..
~ Think about ways you can be of service to others in need. By finding a way to help others. When we give of the heart we receive of the heart.
It's important to think positively, believe you can cure loneliness and act!.I have said earlier that to be happy is to make people happy..And something you should take note of '' Dont delude yourself into thinking that you are doing something selfless when you have bad motive in mind. If you are helping someone, or doing something for them with secret, selfish motives, you may fool everyone else, but you will find it almost impossible to fool yourself.. Be honest with yourself and with others.
Why wait till tomorrow? Get going and good luck..
Friday, 6 September 2013
Tips on Success, and Power of The mind.: Interest Yourself to The pitch And Depth Of succes...
I am sure that many,if not all, of you have experienced the time of not being happy and hopeful of being lonely in a crowded room that when you are left alone.
We are all irrevocably alone, no matter how many friends a person have nor how close or intimate those friends maybe, it does not change the thought of being lonely.
Even close friends, relatives, friends,your husband or wife. There is always something tangible that has not worth to saying or communicating to someone, no matter how loving and close the person might be.
Well probably a friend of mine told me something one day that '' He got annoyed when people asked about his welfare or health''. I said why?. He said because some people say it out of provocation or leisure perspect, which makes him become weird. Probably you have been greeted 100 times this year like '' How are you''? Or ''How are you doing?. All these questions are literally.. Assuming you told them about your physical aches, pain, about the trouble at home or at work..If you have noticed some changes your acquitance's eye after a few moments. Perhaps that got a bit fidgety and probably left you talking to yourself after a while. Because don't you see,People are not really interested.
Your afflictions,troubles and problems are yours,which your dearest friend and nobody else seems to really cares. Did you know why?Do you? Because they all have problems and issues on their own..Certainly theirs are more important to them than yours.
We are all irrevocably alone, no matter how many friends a person have nor how close or intimate those friends maybe, it does not change the thought of being lonely.
Even close friends, relatives, friends,your husband or wife. There is always something tangible that has not worth to saying or communicating to someone, no matter how loving and close the person might be.
Well probably a friend of mine told me something one day that '' He got annoyed when people asked about his welfare or health''. I said why?. He said because some people say it out of provocation or leisure perspect, which makes him become weird. Probably you have been greeted 100 times this year like '' How are you''? Or ''How are you doing?. All these questions are literally.. Assuming you told them about your physical aches, pain, about the trouble at home or at work..If you have noticed some changes your acquitance's eye after a few moments. Perhaps that got a bit fidgety and probably left you talking to yourself after a while. Because don't you see,People are not really interested.
Your afflictions,troubles and problems are yours,which your dearest friend and nobody else seems to really cares. Did you know why?Do you? Because they all have problems and issues on their own..Certainly theirs are more important to them than yours.
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